用友好随意的方式跟他谈谈这一关系吧。Talk to him in a friendly, light way about the relationship.埃莉诺喜欢岛上相对轻松随意的生活。Eleanor enjoyed the relative informality of island life.房间里有一种轻松随意的氛围。The house has an informal atmosphere....

“随意的”的英语可以翻译为：optional，unbending，[医] voluntary ...