I ought not to tell you but I will, since you're in the family, so to speak.我本来不该告诉你的，但我还是要这么做，因为好歹你是家里的一员。I was, so to speak, being hauled in tow.所以说, 我是给牵着走的.Mary is, so to speak, a hardworking student.玛丽可说是个用功的学生...

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